My family’s Struggle a Year Ago and My Prominence
We are five in the family; my father is a former company driver while my mom is a plain house wife. I’m the eldest among my two siblings and our neighbors label us “Tres Maria’s”. My dad quit his job June of 2014 due to pneumonia. Immediately I become the breadwinner and took the responsibility of paying for my youngest sister college education.
I work as a Digital Marketing Specialist on a BPO company in Makati. Despite of unexpected events we are still fortunate that Nina, my second sibling got a job after she finished her school. She’s working as a programmer and it was a big relief for my part. I have companion to shoulder the expenses in the house instead of myself alone.
On July 2014 my mom and dad decided to take a long vacation
to Cebu because the latter needs fresh air. We thought it is good for his
health to continue his medication there but we’re wrong. His condition worsens
from pneumonia to TB. My mom told me that my dad skips taking his prescription
drug and hasn't stop drinking alcoholic beverages during their first month at the
province. I got mad on them but I don’t want to point fingers on who’s to
blame. What my father needs at that moment was an immediate treatment.
Nina and I decided to send them financial support every month. And those are the difficult days because our expenses increase. For three months I did a freelance job to earn extra money. It was an answered prayer because the opportunity came to me when I need it most.
May 2015 my dad completed his medication! He’s feeling better and gaining weight. Although he still take vitamins and continue his medication for his pneumonia. July 19 they got back here in Manila and we’re living on the same roof again as a complete family!
Nina and I decided to send them financial support every month. And those are the difficult days because our expenses increase. For three months I did a freelance job to earn extra money. It was an answered prayer because the opportunity came to me when I need it most.
May 2015 my dad completed his medication! He’s feeling better and gaining weight. Although he still take vitamins and continue his medication for his pneumonia. July 19 they got back here in Manila and we’re living on the same roof again as a complete family!
While my parents are in the province I became a mother for
my two siblings for 11 months. Being the eldest I am force to learn how to
cook, buy goods on the wet market and haggle on store sellers. I did the
budgeting and managing our expenses. It was a tough role for me but I have to endure it for my family. Base from my experience it opens my eyes to increase
my saving when it comes to emergency fund; I become wiser when it comes to
handling finances and to think of other ways to earn additional income.
I learn that no one will help you when you are on the lowest point of your life but yourself and your family. People tend to forget you when you’re useless to them. Why am I saying this?! Because some of my dad’s close friends turn their back on us when he became penniless! I told myself that I don’t want those people to join my network. So yeah, I became picky on choosing friends. And you should do it the same!
I learn that no one will help you when you are on the lowest point of your life but yourself and your family. People tend to forget you when you’re useless to them. Why am I saying this?! Because some of my dad’s close friends turn their back on us when he became penniless! I told myself that I don’t want those people to join my network. So yeah, I became picky on choosing friends. And you should do it the same!
I have so many stories to share here but you might get bore reading a long entry. I’ll save it on another blog post instead. When did you start savings for your future? Do you plan to have an emergency fund? What are the family trials that you and your family surpass together? Share your stories on the comment section below or post the link of your blog entry.
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